My soon to be ex-wife is a dead-set portrait of the "Tard Wife".
Man-o-pause has broken both her mind and soul, and our relationship is now beyond repair. A few years back she told me wanted to cut her hair really short as it wasn't "behaving" any more.
I asked her to try to put up with it for a bit longer and to grow her hair long as she could - because I wanted a beautiful, feminine wife (and added under my breath that only lezbefrens have short hair).
Since man-o-pause, her hair won't behave anymore and now looks exactly like that. To piss me off, she dyed it that exact Ronald McDonald shade of clown-hair red. Her face is etched in a permanent scowl just like that, because despite a wonderful life with everything we could ever desire, other than kids (we discovered she was infertile a few months after we married 12 years ago). Nothing is ever good enough or right. Everything leads to arguments and it's always my fault no matter what.
I sincerely wish her all the very best, and hope she finds happiness and true love. My blood pressure is now back in normal range, I've lost 12 kilos and my hair is growing back (alopecia from stress). The anchor has been cut away and I am perfectly positioned to achieve whatever I want with the rest of my life. Like continuing to read your blog !
Maybe it’s not my place to say it… but it’s my observation that the redheads are the most beautiful women there are, on average. But lord… when they hit that wall… they hit it HARD. They are the most prone to feminine hysteria too.
But us guys hit that wall hard too: I got to the point where all I wanted out of life was peace and quiet, and the women in the family were only offering rage and lunacy. Like yours… mine were pissed at the world and none of it was their fault.
My life is quiet and balanced now, and I am grateful and thankful. A lot of men are not as fortunate as us and spend their lives embroiled in drama.
True story from Afghanistan - At a meeting in the home of a tribal elder/warlord, his senior wife (of 4) was at the table, and she wouldn't shut up. She just kept complaining and running her yap, even after her husband told her to shut up three times. When the harridan kept at it, he said, "Please excuse me", then drew his blade and sliced her head off right there at the table. He apologized for the mess and delay while the servants cleaned everything up.
I absolutely agree regarding young, natural red-headed women. They are truly the most beautiful women in the world.
The fake-red hair colour on my soon to be ex-wife is utterly artificial. She has naturally very dark brown hair, but since man-o-pause has gone totally grey, so she used to dye it raven black, and these days clown-hair fake red. Her mother dyes her grey/yellow hair a lovely poison-frog bright purple "because it's fun". Apple didn't fall far from tree I'm afraid.
My mother-in-law left her husband too, because he "was a pig" and she "thought she could do better", but got a rather rude shock a few months later that no man would stick around post-nut. She went back to her husband ~9 months later, but (years after he was dead) she told me how much she regretted it, and how stupid she'd been and how much money it had cost them both.
First thing I did when I came home to find an empty house, empty joint accounts, stolen dogs and a note that her lawyers would be in touch was change the door locks.
My soon to be ex-wife suffers tremendously from "emotional reasoning" and one of the negative maladaptive schemas. She hid it really well, and I didn't learn about it until 4 years into our 12 year marriage. As painful as this is to say, but thank God I didn't have kids with her.
I see you've met her ! Last time I saw her (7 weeks ago), she had no nose rings, but I have little doubt a septum ring is in her future.
She already had three childish tattoos when we first met, literally like something a kid would scrawl, so its my own fault - the warnings were already there.
When we finished the Camino last year, she wanted us to both get a scallop-shell tattoo each to celebrate the achievement. I just laughed at her - as if I'm going to let someone defile my body like that ! But by all means, you go get yourself one. That ended the tattoo conversation. I guarantee that she's got a new one now though to celebrate her new "empowerment" in ending our 12 year marriage because she's "not happy". Whatever that means.
Today’s women are searching for something - especially the cat ladies, the gender freaks, and man haters. They frag their families and then set out on a stunning and brave voyage old self discovery - if ya listen to them tell it. Or they re-invent themselves with fake identities that require fake spiritual journeys where they actualize those identities by casting off the old one. I think the metal hits the meat when they discover it’s all a pant load and it just pushes them over the edge…
Oh Filthie, that made me laugh like a bastard !
ReplyDeleteMy soon to be ex-wife is a dead-set portrait of the "Tard Wife".
Man-o-pause has broken both her mind and soul, and our relationship is now beyond repair. A few years back she told me wanted to cut her hair really short as it wasn't "behaving" any more.
I asked her to try to put up with it for a bit longer and to grow her hair long as she could - because I wanted a beautiful, feminine wife (and added under my breath that only lezbefrens have short hair).
Since man-o-pause, her hair won't behave anymore and now looks exactly like that. To piss me off, she dyed it that exact Ronald McDonald shade of clown-hair red. Her face is etched in a permanent scowl just like that, because despite a wonderful life with everything we could ever desire, other than kids (we discovered she was infertile a few months after we married 12 years ago). Nothing is ever good enough or right. Everything leads to arguments and it's always my fault no matter what.
I sincerely wish her all the very best, and hope she finds happiness and true love. My blood pressure is now back in normal range, I've lost 12 kilos and my hair is growing back (alopecia from stress). The anchor has been cut away and I am perfectly positioned to achieve whatever I want with the rest of my life. Like continuing to read your blog !
Maybe it’s not my place to say it… but it’s my observation that the redheads are the most beautiful women there are, on average. But lord… when they hit that wall… they hit it HARD. They are the most prone to feminine hysteria too.
DeleteBut us guys hit that wall hard too: I got to the point where all I wanted out of life was peace and quiet, and the women in the family were only offering rage and lunacy. Like yours… mine were pissed at the world and none of it was their fault.
My life is quiet and balanced now, and I am grateful and thankful. A lot of men are not as fortunate as us and spend their lives embroiled in drama.
True story from Afghanistan - At a meeting in the home of a tribal elder/warlord, his senior wife (of 4) was at the table, and she wouldn't shut up. She just kept complaining and running her yap, even after her husband told her to shut up three times. When the harridan kept at it, he said, "Please excuse me", then drew his blade and sliced her head off right there at the table. He apologized for the mess and delay while the servants cleaned everything up.
DeleteI absolutely agree regarding young, natural red-headed women. They are truly the most beautiful women in the world.
ReplyDeleteThe fake-red hair colour on my soon to be ex-wife is utterly artificial. She has naturally very dark brown hair, but since man-o-pause has gone totally grey, so she used to dye it raven black, and these days clown-hair fake red. Her mother dyes her grey/yellow hair a lovely poison-frog bright purple "because it's fun". Apple didn't fall far from tree I'm afraid.
My mother-in-law left her husband too, because he "was a pig" and she "thought she could do better", but got a rather rude shock a few months later that no man would stick around post-nut. She went back to her husband ~9 months later, but (years after he was dead) she told me how much she regretted it, and how stupid she'd been and how much money it had cost them both.
First thing I did when I came home to find an empty house, empty joint accounts, stolen dogs and a note that her lawyers would be in touch was change the door locks.
My soon to be ex-wife suffers tremendously from "emotional reasoning" and one of the negative maladaptive schemas. She hid it really well, and I didn't learn about it until 4 years into our 12 year marriage. As painful as this is to say, but thank God I didn't have kids with her.
Oh boy.
DeleteYup. Once they start doing the hair and piercings and tats ya may as well just bail out because they’ll be barking at the moon next.
I see you've met her ! Last time I saw her (7 weeks ago), she had no nose rings, but I have little doubt a septum ring is in her future.
DeleteShe already had three childish tattoos when we first met, literally like something a kid would scrawl, so its my own fault - the warnings were already there.
When we finished the Camino last year, she wanted us to both get a scallop-shell tattoo each to celebrate the achievement. I just laughed at her - as if I'm going to let someone defile my body like that ! But by all means, you go get yourself one. That ended the tattoo conversation. I guarantee that she's got a new one now though to celebrate her new "empowerment" in ending our 12 year marriage because she's "not happy". Whatever that means.
Today’s women are searching for something - especially the cat ladies, the gender freaks, and man haters. They frag their families and then set out on a stunning and brave voyage old self discovery - if ya listen to them tell it. Or they re-invent themselves with fake identities that require fake spiritual journeys where they actualize those identities by casting off the old one. I think the metal hits the meat when they discover it’s all a pant load and it just pushes them over the edge…
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