Stubfart Ramble: Stop Being Nice!!! THAT’LL Fix It…
Uggghhh. Looks like BCE is going through the wringer now. Not gonna compare notes, or my pain to his. I suppose if I did, I’d have to say I got off light when my family divided and collapsed. Our cases are probably much different but there are a few similarities.
“Being upfront and not putting up with people’s bullshit can be costly. “Their truth” and whatnot is something I personally can’t abide by. Truth is Truth. No more, no less. ANY and EVERY sinlge time I hear “My truth” or statements along those lines I knowI’m done… no matter what…”
The second I heard that… I knew he was done too. When I hear some ass hat babbling about ‘my truth’ now, I know I’m talking to someone with severe problems with reality and they’ll expect me to take responsibility for it and pay the consequences for it. It’s standard retard shitlib word salad.
Thankfully innernet head shrinks, pundits and influencers all have the answer! Stop being nice!!! “Stop people-pleasing” is the new buzz phrase all the cool kids are saying. None of those turd brains can think for themselves. Everyone is saying it. I’m seeing stuff like this…
And this:
And this…
Nobody wants to watch angry, hurt people bitch for a half hour so I’ll summarize. “Go live your own truth”. Months ago I laughed when I saw my degenerate daughter’s blog where she huffed and puffed and told all the other clowns that she was “done people pleasing” and it was no more “Mx. Nice Guy”…
😂👍
I didn’t say anything, I never do. Like most of her tribe she was never a nice person or a people pleaserto begin with. But that is the narrative now, she’s going to teach everyone a lesson and stop being nice!!! I just sigh, shake my head and think, “Fill yer boots kid. That’ll learn us all real good!” She’s still alive, that’s all this father needs to know. But Big Country is right. There is no multitudes of truth. There is only God’s truth. Or THE truth, if ya can’t handle faith.
My family imploded over ten years ago and the pain has largely dissipated. Most of those years I might have agreed with these truth living sages and philosopher kings and queens: cut them off!!! Stop being nice to vampires and lunatics, live your own truth!!! It sure sounds good. We are the heroes, they are all the bad guys, and the must be punished!!!
It’s been a long time but… I think I may have finally arrived at the truth these family breakdowns. Ya don’t cut on others.
You cut yourself.
This vid is two minutes. If you suffer family dysfunction as I do, and you feel yourself drowning or being washed away in the lunacy and stupidity of others…? It’s probably well worth your time.
"Stop people-pleasing..." So THAT'S what they call it... From my vantage point sitting atop a shipping container behind the barn here at Rancho Whybother, I see that as an excuse for these morbidly angry people to become bigger bitches than they already are. Face it, kids, you can only scream so loud. It's ALL white noise to me. No one's listening to you anymore! We are living among masses in the throes of degenerative mental illness, Glen... They're worse than the zombies in The Walking Dead. Damn... The zombies probably SMELL better!
People pleasing from narcissists is call victimology, true double-speak of people that hold two conflicting ideals at once and call it them truth. Its really mental illness.in my experience and Im have and am going through this with family and long-time friends.
HAR HAR HAR! Indeed Pete. But it’s like the kipper said: the initial amputation hurts. Eventually the pain goes away. Out here in the outhouse… behind the shipping containers… I just laugh when they scream about the pain of living their truths. Being stupid SHOULD hurt…and I too am all out of fucks to give…
I know of two lesbians who are married to each other and who I would say are happy, well-adjusted people, and who are kind to others. So that's two. But the rest? No, not so much.
Don't be too hard on yourself. "These days", post Cern, alien entity (demons), portal rupture, timeline alteration, dimensional phase shift, your personal truth might be right on. God talks to us through intuition, gut feelings, lessons and hard knocks. You're paying attention, you'll be fiiiiiine.
I retired from the military and contracting work overseas after 31 years, August 2021 due to injuries and other health issues. . I am a 100% combat DAV. I retired wn officer fater along career enlisted. I have numerous degrees, over 6 years of training in numerous areas and specialties, Ive accomplished a lot despite a lot challenges and setbacks. About a year into finding my new life and future I started to see relationships with family and friends different, even though i wasnt around a lot I was all over the US and overseas, I started to question all of these relationships, some I was able to salvage and some not only did I have to burn the bridge, I had to demo that sucker and the way those go after calling out peoples one way street relationships for over 30 years, hypocrisy and two-faced untrustworthiness, who I say i love you then lie to you or mistreat you then lie to you some more. I just ask where were you for me the last 30+ years and my family? Crickets. Now all the sudden you know me and blah, blah blah, and a few family its just shear jealousy that I and my kids made more out of our lives than themselves and their kids and some with a visceral loathing of authority figures, like me, they hate discipline and despise your success, theyre drug addicts, drunks, failed losers with, little future, homosexuals, etc...jealousy plays a huge part, untrustworthiness and the one way street my terms only types. Well folks, Im retired now and I wont suffer one iota of it. Get on the bridge and let the countdown begin. I have zero fucks to give, my street sign reads two way street from now. The reaction from family and friends from me pulling the rug out and laying out the new rules has not been met with acceptance, understanding and no pleasantries in fact near physical altercations from one. Ive ended three very close relationships with this statement, if you gotta beef with, I got a front yard and a back yard, let me know when and we can settle it. Surprisingly, no one ever showed and never heard from them again. My parents get it and support it. If anything I am tenacious and resolute. Im living good no debt, money in the bank and gas in the tank, I have a service dog and zero fucks to give. My relationships are all now contractual, I lay it out up front and we all get along great.
I got lucky. Whilst scrolling down, I stopped at the warning word, "Grunt", as I realized I am out of eye-bleach and moved along to my next daily reader. Too many times I've fallen into Filthies evil webs of deceit and malice. ; )
"she huffed and puffed and told all the other clowns that she was “done people pleasing”" - Have you ever met an older lesbian that wasn't angry?
ReplyDeleteI haven't.
"Stop people-pleasing..." So THAT'S what they call it... From my vantage point sitting atop a shipping container behind the barn here at Rancho Whybother, I see that as an excuse for these morbidly angry people to become bigger bitches than they already are. Face it, kids, you can only scream so loud. It's ALL white noise to me. No one's listening to you anymore! We are living among masses in the throes of degenerative mental illness, Glen... They're worse than the zombies in The Walking Dead. Damn... The zombies probably SMELL better!
ReplyDeleteDamn! Now I need a shipping container! Thanks Pete.
DeleteZombie slow movers are manageable, fast movers, scary as hell!
People pleasing from narcissists is call victimology, true double-speak of people that hold two conflicting ideals at once and call it them truth. Its really mental illness.in my experience and Im have and am going through this with family and long-time friends.
DeleteHAR HAR HAR! Indeed Pete. But it’s like the kipper said: the initial amputation hurts. Eventually the pain goes away. Out here in the outhouse… behind the shipping containers… I just laugh when they scream about the pain of living their truths. Being stupid SHOULD hurt…and I too am all out of fucks to give…
DeleteI know of two lesbians who are married to each other and who I would say are happy, well-adjusted people, and who are kind to others. So that's two. But the rest? No, not so much.
ReplyDeleteDon't be too hard on yourself. "These days", post Cern, alien entity (demons), portal rupture, timeline alteration, dimensional phase shift, your personal truth might be right on.
ReplyDeleteGod talks to us through intuition, gut feelings, lessons and hard knocks. You're paying attention, you'll be fiiiiiine.
I retired from the military and contracting work overseas after 31 years, August 2021 due to injuries and other health issues. . I am a 100% combat DAV. I retired wn officer fater along career enlisted. I have numerous degrees, over 6 years of training in numerous areas and specialties, Ive accomplished a lot despite a lot challenges and setbacks. About a year into finding my new life and future I started to see relationships with family and friends different, even though i wasnt around a lot I was all over the US and overseas, I started to question all of these relationships, some I was able to salvage and some not only did I have to burn the bridge, I had to demo that sucker and the way those go after calling out peoples one way street relationships for over 30 years, hypocrisy and two-faced untrustworthiness, who I say i love you then lie to you or mistreat you then lie to you some more. I just ask where were you for me the last 30+ years and my family? Crickets. Now all the sudden you know me and blah, blah blah, and a few family its just shear jealousy that I and my kids made more out of our lives than themselves and their kids and some with a visceral loathing of authority figures, like me, they hate discipline and despise your success, theyre drug addicts, drunks, failed losers with, little future, homosexuals, etc...jealousy plays a huge part, untrustworthiness and the one way street my terms only types. Well folks, Im retired now and I wont suffer one iota of it. Get on the bridge and let the countdown begin. I have zero fucks to give, my street sign reads two way street from now. The reaction from family and friends from me pulling the rug out and laying out the new rules has not been met with acceptance, understanding and no pleasantries in fact near physical altercations from one. Ive ended three very close relationships with this statement, if you gotta beef with, I got a front yard and a back yard, let me know when and we can settle it. Surprisingly, no one ever showed and never heard from them again. My parents get it and support it. If anything I am tenacious and resolute. Im living good no debt, money in the bank and gas in the tank, I have a service dog and zero fucks to give. My relationships are all now contractual, I lay it out up front and we all get along great.
ReplyDeleteI got lucky. Whilst scrolling down, I stopped at the warning word, "Grunt", as I realized I am out of eye-bleach and moved along to my next daily reader. Too many times I've fallen into Filthies evil webs of deceit and malice.
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You can’t dodge forever Ace! Take your punishMINT like a man!!!
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